Alumni Banquet Speech

December 2002

Family Ties

Chris Ridenhour's Speech


Bringing together alumni and friends of years past, the 25th Annual Germantown Thespian Alumni Banquet was a night to remember. Chris Ridenhour was the guest of honor. A unique skit entitled Family Ties, written by Ted Horrell and Danny McCleary, was performed by the Germantown High School fine arts students during the banquet.

Chris Ridenhour's Speech
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Thespian Alumni Banquet
December 21, 2002
Chris Ridenhour

Good evening.

Thank you for that warm introduction. I appreciate it. I am so used to speaking one on one with people on the telephone - so it’s a little strange being in front of so many people! I generally get unnerved by this many eyes looking at me.

I would like to acknowledge my grandmother, Mrs. Una Russell, who traveled here from Athens, Georgia, as well as my parents, Mike and Gail, and my sister, Elizabeth, who, I might add, had to tolerate living on the same floor of our house and sharing the same bathroom with me for thirteen years. That in and of itself I believe deserves special recognition.

I would like to dedicate my remarks tonight to a friend whom I regarded as one of my proteges, if you will, while I was at Germantown, David Lilly. A person we all loved very much. David was a dedicated team player for the Playhouse and GHS-TV, a bright young guy, and a good friend. He continues to be missed. Dave, I know that Green and I wish you were here with us tonight.

When Mr. Bluestein told me I had been selected as this year's honoree, my first thought was, "Am I really old enough to be honored? I thought you had to be as old as Jim Barrett to be honored!" Just kidding, Jim! But as it turns out, some years have now passed since my graduation in 1992, so I was told that I am fair game, and I am certain that the skit, if history proves correct, will be scathing and leave no stone unturned.

I am grateful to Thespian Troupe #912 for selecting me. It's quite an honor to be here. There have been a long line of distinguished alumni and friends who have stood here before me, individuals whom I have looked up to and admired over the years -- Martin Cutler, Chris Parnell, Danny McCleary, David Bryant, the Taylor family, Jim Barrett, Kimberly Heimert, and on and on.

When I was in the third grade, my mother, Gail, suggested that I try out for a performance of THE LITTLEST ANGEL at the Germantown Community Theatre. I got the part and I was hooked on the arts. I have early memories of driving by Germantown High School on Old Poplar Pike, being in my parents' car, and looking out at those red-brick buildings and only knowing vaguely that there was some sort of cable television station inside and a theatre which had a reputation of being more professional than some truly professional theatres.

I remember attending a performance of THE MYSTERY OF EDWIN DROOD when I was in the 8th grade and being utterly mesmerized by what I saw. I knew by then I wanted to somehow be involved in "Production Workshop" at Germantown High School.

I remember going up to the high school during the summer before I even started as a freshman -- this would've been the summer of 1988 -- and hanging around the GHS-TV studio, looking up to Jeff Webb, John Taylor, Jeff Stroud, Doug Norris, all the individuals who were running the studio back then, watching them operate the equipment with awe. I was hooked. Then and there I made it my mission to become an active participant in the studio and the theatre.

Fortunately I was blessed to be born to such amazing parents who encouraged me to be pro-active in anything I wanted to do. Beginning with Little League t-ball where, as an outfielder, I was able to pick a lot of grass -- as it turned out, sports weren't my thing. But the arts were. Want to start a garage rock band and drive them and the neighbors crazy? "Yes." Act in plays at the local theatre? "Yes." Get involved in the theatre and the studio? "Yes." My parents have joked that I was fortunate, as well, that they bought a house inside the Germantown city limits, which thereby sent me to Germantown Elementary, Middle, and High Schools… and set me off on a path which has led me to this point. All of these things happen for a reason.

I slowly but surely became more and more involved in the Fine Arts Department, and eventually ended up being General Manager of the studio my senior year. The four years I spent at Germantown were among the best of my life, for their own reasons. The University of Southern California was a unique and enlightening experience, and the years since I graduated from college have also been interesting and challenging in their own way.

But the four years spent working in the Fine Arts Department have their own special place in my heart as I look back.

When you are 16, 17, 18 years old and Germantown, Tennessee is your entire world, there's not a huge amount of perspective on what you are doing. (Unless, of course, you were fortunate enough to be jetting off to Moscow while attending GHS, but that's another discussion altogether.)

While you are in the moment at Germantown High School, there is not a lot of time to contemplate what it all means. Which is a good thing. You just DO IT. You just perform. You belt out a show tune, you practice your lines, you drag camera cables, you edit footage together. The freedom is extraordinary. I look back now with a certain amount of awe for how intense we worked. The passion was unbridled.

Everyone I went through the program with was similarly focused and engaged in the work. My fellow students and I at the time -- Lee Blair, Courtney Clement, Chris Green, Kyla Heimert, Ted Horrell, Shannon Miller, Cara Rawlings, Jennifer Smith, just to name a few -- we learned what teamwork was about. We were ferocious in our efforts to produce TV shows, execute a production.

Though it may sound strange, I'd like to draw a comparison to football. This is for Mr. Chism. Bear with me here. I love watching college football. I love my USC Trojans and I love my Dad's Georgia Bulldogs. I don't care too much about pro football. Why? Because I feel like those college students who are playing college football are playing for their school. They're playing out of passion. Sure, they may want to go on to the NFL, but not all of them will, and yet they still play their hearts out.

That's the way I believe we felt, though we didn't even know it at the time. We worked with passion. We didn't stop to think about which awards we were going to win, for example. We were focused on producing quality musicals, plays, TV productions. We were excited about what we were doing. We weren't being paid a dime, because this was not about money. It was about pride, enthusiasm, and passion. We worked hard and when show time arrived, everyone played their hearts out.

We took our marching orders from Mr. Bluestein and the entire staff of the Fine Arts Department. No one can say that it wasn't tough at the time. The experience was challenging. It was tough. Everyone pushed themselves to accept nothing less than the absolute best one could offer. This was the invaluable lesson we all learned. Push yourself. Work hard. Think things through. Check, double-check, and check again. Stay focused. Be motivated. And yet, above all, have integrity.

I believe that we have an illustrious group of alumni who are out there pursuing what makes them happy due to what they experienced at that early age. Individuals who were molded at the age of 17 and 18 into sharp minds filled with a sense of ambition and a work ethic which was unparalleled by most of our peers at that age.

I say to the students who are here tonight: Take advantage of the time you are at Germantown High School. Push yourself to create. Use the studio to create product. Participate in the theatre. Figure out what you enjoy.

Fortunately you're living with your parents, therefore you don't yet have the responsibilities of real world issues yet: rent, job security, all of the things that come with the territory once you are out on your own. It becomes harder after college to find the time to experience different aspects of the theatre, for instance.

This is the time to contribute to the cause of what those before you have done and that is continuing the excellence of our high school fine arts program. It is also up to you to bring in the next generation of students who will run the program and train them, all the while bonding in a way which will make your high school experience a great one.

Which brings me to my next point:

One of the things that made my experience so great was the amazing group of friends I went through school with. The last time I had daily contact with my high school peers was ten years ago, yet I still feel as close to them today as I did back then. This is important. This transcends the work ethic, the pursuit of perfection, because the work created a bond between us which can't be broken. It all adds up to a greater sense of happiness and well-being as we all go our separate ways to pursue our own lives - whether it's to Senatobia, Columbia, New York, or Nashville - we all take with us a feeling that we contributed to something great here.

I think back fondly to last year's banquet, where the Playhouse celebrated 25 years, and was amazed by the outpouring of love and affection towards each other. In light of such hostile and tragic world events over the past year and a half or so, it's nice to see the comfort that this group of people bring to each other.

After 9/11, I believe community has become even more significant, and our roots are important. I think that's why we see such a large group of graduates and friends of the Fine Arts Department return, year after year, to the alumni banquet. It provides a sense of connection and warmth that is hard to find. Only these days, upon reflection, do I realize how fortunate I really was.

My family certainly weren't the richest folks in Germantown if you are measuring by dollars, but I do feel that the opportunities I had and the hand I was dealt provided me with a strong sense of purpose, dedication, and enthusiasm for going out and tackling the "real world." It was these experiences which gave me the confidence and motivation to pack up and go to school thousands of miles away. It wasn't a need to leave home, it was just a desire to go and find my own way, with the strength that was imbued in me by the adults who influenced me. Aside from my family, much of the credit for that goes to the Playhouse and GHS-TV.

Now I know that Frank Bluestein does not like the spotlight shining on him, and I admire his humility, but his influence on me is incalculable. I could not stand here without making a point of saying that the responsibility he gave me while I was 17 and 18 years old built up my self-confidence, fired up my ambition, and motivated me to such a degree that I when I left high school, I went after the motion picture industry with great zeal.

Mr. Bluestein could not have done it alone, however, and the close-knit circle of instructors over the years - Karen Dean, Sara Savell, Leonid Mazor, the late Tully Daniel, Ernest Chism, Almeda Zent, Brenda Bluestein, Lanny Byrd, just to name a few - these individuals all supported Mr. Bluestein's original vision for a tough, sometimes agonizing, program which asks students to give nothing less than their best. They recognized that there has been and continues to be something special here at Germantown High School -- something which cannot be easily characterized.

I believe the end result of those many years of hard work and dedication by everyone involved manifests itself in each individual student going out into the world and pursuing what makes he or she happy, no matter what the job is or whether or not it is related to the arts.

Each student's personal ambition to excel is what built this program into one which is nationally renowned for its innovation, intelligence, and creativity.

That is why I believe I am not alone in viewing our group as an extended family, one which has all of the ups and downs of a normal home life; all the intensity of being pushed to achieve perfection with the end result being well-rounded, hard-working individuals with a clear set of goals and a mindset which encourages positive contribution to society.

Again, thank you for inviting me to be the honoree for 2002.

Happy Holidays and May God Bless.

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